NEW POETRY: “CONSEQUENCES”

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I came across yet another of those horrid “I’mma time-travel and kill Hitler!” sci-fi “novels” on Amazon the other day, and it got me thinking about the one man in history who had the best chance to do so. Without the aid of time travel. But just as pity caused Bilbo to spare Gollum, so did pity motivate Henry Tandey—to the sorrow of the world. It’s this key moment in history—five minutes, tops—that makes a body contemplate the caprice of the universe, and how often an individual kindness can lead us to unimaginable places.

CONSEQUENCES

Let us think of Henry Tandey.
Astride the fulcrum of history,
he is nevertheless just a man.

Cold; dirty; impossibly weary.
Streaked with blood and bits of
la terre français.

Through his eyes, let us see
the torn field, hear the screams
and try not to breathe the

heavy stench
of men dying for
inches of blood-soaked earth.

Let us think of Henry Tandey:

A young man with a gun.

So; this ragamuffin German
Now staggering into view.
He’s wounded and dazed, alone

in a field of thousands.

Through the crosshairs
of a battered rifle, he
seems a lost lamb,

The lion inside him
not yet ready to roar
and rage and ravage.

He is, as he shall always be,
a pitiful thing, broken and
so eager to break.

But today he is not even 30
And the War to End All Wars
Has kindled in the Brit

A need for compassion;
For some small act that
will keep him whole.

And so Henry Tandey,
A hero beyond reproach,
Lowers his weapon.

And sets the world afire.

NEW POETRY: “LET US PITY THE VIRGIN”

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A preventable slaughter took place at UC Santa Barbara this week.

The Brain Monkeys, looking around at the current state of affairs, found they were angry, and sent the following poem up the dumbwaiter.

They’re not the only ones who are angry.

LET US PITY THE VIRGIN

“What made him do it?” says America.
Her head, scarred now, the crown of liberty
dented, broken, more than a little…

uneven.

Up like a hydra rise the talking heads,
Ready to defend, defuse, declaim.
“Not ALL men,” they say, tears in

their crocodile eyes.

Thousands of miles above,
the point lingers, unlooked-for
and therefore unmissed.

by those empty heads.

She was asking for it.
Boys will be boys,
even when they’re meant

to be men.

Women as prizes, as trophies,
a gem with a single facet
That reflects hunger and fear

And terrible obligation.

And the blame! Oh, the blame.
So much to go around. Landing
in thick, sticky ropes but leaving

XY unstained.

The hare is to blame for rousing
the hound; too short, too high,
here a breast, there a thigh;

But we’re not rabbits, and we’re never in season.

The alphabet soup thickens
PUA, MRA, SOL, POS
Remember when being a prick

was a bad thing?

“What made him do it?” says America,
Stumbling, leaning on weary, half-blind Justice
“It’s not like he’s a bad guy;

But those bitches never gave him a chance.”

Can You See Me? Thoughts on the Transgender Day of Visibility

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Is this thing on?

But why do so many people ask me if I’m “from Transylvania?”

 

Psst. Over here. I’ve got a little surprise for you.

Are you sitting down? Are you ready?

Here goes: I’m a transwoman. LIVING AMONG THE UNSUSPECTING HUMANS!

DUN-DA-DUN!

OK, maybe not such a huge surprise.

Today is the International Transgender Day of Visibility.

Like the other major event on the Trans Calendar every year—the Transgender Day of Remembrance—today is all about sharing. But unlike the dark and somber day in November, when we take stock of our losses and mourn our dead, today is a celebration. It’s about owning our identities, and embracing the lives we deserve. It’s about encouraging others, and breaking boundaries, and sharing with the people we know and love the best, most honest version of ourselves.

Today is a day when a lot of folks will be talking about Geena Rocero’s new organization designed to fight for transgender equality and civil rights around the world. We’ll be talking about the inspiration we find in strong and brave women like Laverne Cox and Janet Mock, who not only own their womanhood, but refuse to put up with being demeaned or made into a curiosity by those who can’t—or won’t—acknowledge their worth.

And some of us will find a little time (as we do) to talk about ourselves. I’m a transwoman who at, just two years shy of 40, finds myself still working on things I thought would be long settled by now. But that’s probably true for anyone on the cusp of 40; what I would like to focus on today is the fact that I’m doing what I love—writing and editing and basically raising a ruckus—and getting paid to do so. I’ve managed to write and publish two books under my own name, and many more under a pseudonym. I am not the healthiest person, but I’m working on it. I’ve got friends and family whom I adore (and, having taken leave of their senses, adore me in return).

Life as Claire is good. It’s getting better all the time. And to anyone out there who’s in the closet, on the fence, or otherwise arranged by a preposition in relation to a wooden object, wondering if there’s a life to be had as a transperson, on the day when we shout from the rooftops “I EXIST!”, I say yes, there is.

It’s scary, and exciting, and occasionally deadly dull (as most lives are). But most importantly, it’s an HONEST life. One that lets you look the world in the eye and say, “I will not build walls between myself and the world—nor will I allow them to be erected in my path.” (You don’t have to be so dramatic about it, but seriously, it’s a good feeling. Try wearing a cape while you say it.)

Today is a celebration. And if you’re feeling scared, or confused, or even just curious, I encourage you to read this pamphlet from the HRC. It’s a good place to start for anyone who knows—or is starting to understand—that they’re trans. It’s also a really helpful tool for anyone who has a trans* person in their life, and wants to help, and understand, and support them.

Trans* folks are more visible than ever before, and I truly believe that it’s a good thing. Good for the countries of the world, and good for a species of angel-stuffed apes who too often think in binary. It’s my sincere hope that, as the years pass and trans* folks become not only visible in, but vital to, our collective understanding of what makes a healthy and happy society, we will have more laughter and love to share each March.

And far, far fewer tears to share come November.